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Tweak your mindset, transform your love life

Modern dating is a shitshow

Get personalized insights, recommendations, and proven tools to help you make sense of your love life, stay in the right headspace, and find the right partner.

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A radical new approach

We all know dating is broken but that doesn't mean your love life has to be. We'll help you rise above the noise, which can change everything.

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How It Works

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Revealing quizzes
Sweetn’s research-based quizzes wake you up to the (bullshit) beliefs you’ve picked up about your power, worth, and potential. Get your results immediately.
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Personalized Daily DMs
Daily messages help you change your stories, fall in love with yourself and your life, and date from a place of calm, strength & confidence.
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Empowering workshops & tools
Powerful workshops, boosts & visualizations give you the kick in the ass you need to tap into your power, get out there, and create the (love) life you want.
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Support for every situation & headspace
Whatever you're struggling with (burnout, age anxiety, overthinking, a situationship), our expert coaches and growing community have you covered.
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Finding love doesn't start with a swipe or a match—it starts with your mindset.

Quizzes

The Coach Discover your limiting patterns and your potential
The Matchmaker Discover what kind of partner you need
The Navigator Understand your partner’s patterns
The Housekeeper Make sense
of your breakup
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Daily Messages

Shift your thinking & break limiting patterns with empowering messages. Topics include:
Dating smarter
Choose better partners
Transform your love life by understanding (and changing) who you’re drawn to
Opening up
Open up and let someone in
You don’t always have to be strong. Let down your walls, learn to receive, and let someone love you
Prioritizing yourself
Say what you really want
Stop hiding your needs so you can discover yourself & step into your power
Being single
Stop the single spiral
Manage FOMO, loneliness, and single anxiety so you can live & love your life
Meeting people
Date without hating it
Change your dating mindset so dating starts to feel good instead of awful
Feeling confident
Don't fixate on your flaws
Everyone has insecurities. Don’t let yours drive your love life

What People Are Saying

  • Finally, advice about your love life that doesn't make you cringe or feel awful.

    Priya, 28

  • OMG why has it taken so long for someone to create this?

    Michelle, 32

  • I feel seen. The daily messages are exactly what I need.

    Nia, 34

  • I love my daily messages. I wish I could get more than one per day. The reframes are so cool.

    Jada, 28

  • The little affirmations are so different and interesting and they stick in my head.

    Lila, 42

  • I haven't been in a relationship in 2 years and the daily messages, which I LOVE, keep me calm. Thank you!!

    Anna, 30

  • This is the perfect blend of science and woo-woo. Everything they're saying hits my intuition in the right way and just makes sense.

    Kat, 27

  • Everything this app says makes me cry, in a good way. Like, someone gets it.

    Mercedes, 35

  • The quiz was a little intense but I needed that kick in the ass.

    Lucia, 37

  • I had basically given up on dating but everything I'm learning here made me want to try again. And dating just feels different this time....

    Janelle, 45

We believe...

  • Dating can make you
    doubt yourself

    Dating is hard. If you’re not careful, the inevitable disappointments can ruin your self-esteem and make you feel hopeless & desperate.

  • There's nothing
    wrong with you

    But the way you’ve been taught to think about yourself, dating & relationships is all wrong, and can keep you stuck.

  • It's time to flip
    the script

    You may not believe it (yet), but you’re in control of your love life. Internalizing that belief is a game-changer.

  • Knowledge is
    power

    No one teaches us how to find the right person, build healthy relationships, or feel whole & fulfilled on our own. Until now.

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FAQ

  • The Sweetn approach is based on principles from performance coaching, cognitive behavioral therapy, and mindfulness. You can read more about it on the Our Approach page.

  • Sweetn will eventually be for everyone, regardless of gender identity or sexual preference, but it’s currently for single women who like men. We’ll expand as soon as we’ve gathered the right data—Sweetn’s lab is working on that now!

  • Yes, soon! Our quizzes are based on a rigorous process that involves significant research and data collection. Our lab is working on collecting that data for different groups but we're a small startup so it may take a little time.

    If you want to get updates, just click "Take the Quiz", answer a few quick questions about your identity, and leave your email.

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